The reframe
why did I say that
I should have handled it better
everyone noticed. they must have
I should just cancel tomorrow
it's fine. it's fine. it's fine.
they were just being polite
not again
why can't I just let it go
if I replay it one more time I'll find the moment it went wrong
why did I say that
just sleep
it's fine. it's fine. it's fine.
I heard how it sounded
tomorrow I'll be useless
everyone else moves on
maybe I'm too much
what is wrong with me
why did I say that
Nothing is wrong with you.
Rumination is not a thinking problem.
It is a nervous system problem.
These loops aren't character flaws. They're protections your nervous system learned once — and can unlearn. {{ wren }} helps you understand yours: what fires it, what settles it, and how to grow the space between.
Polyvagal theory·Somatic practice·Attachment research
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Maya —
Thursday, you noticed the hum before it took the wheel. You named it in the meeting, not three hours after. That is a nervous system learning it has options.
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Thursday, you noticed the hum before it took the wheel. You named it in the meeting, not three hours after. That is a nervous system learning it has options.
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I'm done